1 CORINTHIANS CHAPTER 7
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This chapter speaks of man’s sinful nature, and
verse one seems
to summarize the entire epistle of First Corinthians, "Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman."
This chapter was the cause of Paul writing to the Corinthian
Church in response to their concerns, which they previously wrote
to Paul. The crescendo happens in verse
35, "And this I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon
you, but to promote what is seemly, and to secure undistracted devotion to the
lord." Compare this to the teaching we hear in the pulpits across
America, and look for resemblance. They have little in common. Why is that?
Paul was writing at a time when the Church was enjoying revival, a great
upsurge of passion and attendance in the congregation; but when there is no
revival and none in sight, people might as well marry, because there is no
ministry in the Church worthy of dedicating our lives to it. See also: Commending the single person; 1Cor 7-1; 189c
1Cor 7,1-6
(8n)
Responsibility >> Prevent sin from coming
between you and God –
It is apparent by these verses that God’s
motive for marriage should be to avoid living in fornication. Nowhere in the
Bible does it advocate getting married as a better way of life
than remaining single. Instead, Paul suggested remaining single to secure
undistracted devotion to the Lord. According to Paul, marriage is an
institution designed for those who have low self-control. If we can't live faithfully
for Christ
as a single person without committing fornication, then by all means get
married; yet, the benefits of remaining single far outweigh the costs,
though its not for everyone. The purpose of marriage in Christianity is to
provide an avenue for sexual expression to avoid sinning against the body.
1Cor 7-1,2
(3g) Responsibility
>> To the Family >>
Remaining single is better than divorce – These verses go with
verse 8. This
chapter was the reason Paul wrote the book of First Corinthians saying, “Now concerning the things about which you
wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman.” Paul wrote the first six
chapters before he got to his main point. This whole chapter is about the
subject of marriage, whether we should marry at all, and Paul’s answer was
that it would be better if we didn’t. He continues in verse 2, though, saying, “But
because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is
to have her own husband.” It sounds contradictory, but Paul was trying to
strike a balance between the ideal and cold reality; he would like to see God’s people remain single, though he
worried about immorality. Their faith would benefit if they remained single,
but fornication would become a greater concern, running the saints into
spiritual problems, and in that case it would be better for them to marry. In
other words, it would be better to have all the difficulties of marriage than
to live in sin. This emphasizes the seriousness of sin; it can lead a person to lose his faith. Paul was saying that because of immorality everyone
should get married, but when we do, we are to act as though we
were not married. Paul wanted us to be more attached to Jesus than to our
spouses. His ideal marriage is a couple who serves the saints, and
when passions flare, they come together and then resume their service toward
the Church. Paul did not want us transferring our zeal for Christ to our
spouses and family, for these things are temporal concerns and Paul wanted us
to focus on that which is eternal. Life without sex is too difficult for some
people; therefore, they should get married, but within the bond of marriage,
they should learn to serve in the area of hospitality
and helping the saints in any array of problems they might have, and not just
please themselves.
(108a) Thy kingdom come
>> Faith >> Balance between truth and error >>
Wisdom brings balance between truth and error -- These verses go with verse 5
(135b) Temple
>>
Your body is the temple of God >> Sins of the
body >> Immorality >>
Fornication -- These verses go with verse 9
(199b) Denying Christ
>>
Man exercises his will against God >>
Frustrating the grace of God >> Frustrating
Jesus >> Frustrating the Father -- These
verses go with verses 7-9
1Cor 7-1
(22f) Sin
>>
Lust (craving pleasure) >> Fleshly desire
-- This verse goes with verses 5-9
(76l) Thy kingdom come
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Desires of your heart >> Desires of your fleshly
appetite -- This verse goes with verses 5-7
(103h) Thy kingdom come
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Purifying process >> Cleanse yourself --
This verse goes with verses 32-35
(120l) Thy kingdom come
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Manifestations of faith >> Contentment >>
Content with your way of life >> Content
with remaining single -- This verse goes with verses 7-13
(134f) Temple
>>
Your body is the temple of God >> Composition of
our bodies is from the earth >> Worship unlocks
the spirit realm -- This verse goes with verse
34
(137h) Temple
>>
Building the temple (with hands) >> Maturity >>
Maturing in Jesus is hard work >> Maturity comes
through discipline -- This verse goes with verses 7&8
(189c) Die to self (Process of substitution)
>>
Separation from the old man >> Holy sacrifice >>
Acceptable sacrifice -- This verse goes with verses 29-35. Go to almost any church and you will see that
everyone who is anyone is married with children. The man in ministry probably has a good
job and has children who are well behaved. These are the criteria for choosing
ministers in the Church for both pastors and laymen. Based on Paul's teaching
to Timothy and Titus, when he said that deacons must be married to one wife
(1Tim 3-12), he did not mean they should be married; he meant they should not
be married to more than one wife, thus condemning polygamy. However, in the
Church today if they have been
divorced, it is a mark against them, and if they have never been married, it
is a bigger mark against them. If their children are unruly, that too marks
against them. So, what people look for in a minister is someone who is
married to one wife, having never been divorced (either one of them
preferably) and have children who are well behaved. Foremost of all, they
should have good jobs, make lots of money, live in nice houses and pay big tithes.
In other words the Church has embraced a misinterpretation of 1st Timothy chapter 3, and have
completely ignored 1st Corinthians chapter 7. The result is false doctrine. Therefore, if you are not married and
devoting your life to Christ as you should (instead of to a career) and want to minister in some
fashion, you will be for the most part labeled a failure and rejected. These are the
unspoken criteria in the Church, and it has virtually no basis in Scripture. However, if
your forte is digging toilet paper from
clogged toilets, they will pat you on the back and tell you to perform your
ministry heartily as unto the Lord, because they certainly don't want the job. Sad but true, it is hard to find anyone who is willing to give single
people a ministry that involves teaching the word of God. Single people are stigmatized,
causing the married culture to believe there is something intrinsically wrong
with them. As the stigma goes, they must not be able to attract a mate because
of some deep personality flaws, and
all the important, gifted and talented people get married and have families
and are allowed to minister in the Church. In other words, being successful in
the world is a sign of being successful in the Church, yet the question of
their salvation has not even been addressed,
but they are married with children and meet the criteria for ministry. Those
who love God are abandoned, while those who scarcely know God if at all are
given ministries controlling the doctrines that people believe. This
is a very egregious inequality in the Church today. The worst of it is that
single people have the most to offer, since they have the most time and energy
to devote to their faith in the word of God and prayer. So the Church shuts out those who potentially
can offer the most. See also: Commending the single person; 1Cor 7,3-24, 3c
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(3d) Responsibility
>> To the family
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Marriage >> Advocating marriage
1Cor 7,3-24
(3c) Responsibility
>> To the Family
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Instruction about marriage –
'It is better to remain single,' was Paul’s advice. Single people are the unsung heroes of the
Church;
those most deserving of credit are least recognized, no different from the
world. Is the list of criteria
really scriptural the Church uses to determine who ministers, based on marital
status? Paul spoke to Timothy in chapter three, saying deacons should be husbands
of only one wife. Did Paul really say that deacons must be married? No, he must not be a
polygamist! That is very different from the requirement of marriage. Paul
who wrote this instruction was not married and
he was head of the Church. Jesus was not married
and He was Savior of the whole world! Many great men of God, especially those in
the early church who helped write the Bible, were not married. This suggests
there is an epidemic of married unrighteous
stewards taking advantage of God’s people and no one seems to notice. The Church
has let down
its guard because it appears that the preacher loves his wife and children, but when is the question of his faith addressed?
Whether a Christian should be married is
what prompted Paul to write 1st Corinthians, so we could say it is the most
important subject of this epistle. It is good for a man not to touch a
woman, he said, and God
concurs with Paul’s opinion in Rev 14-4, in regard to the 144,000 Jewish
witnesses, none of whom are married, and these will lead the gentile Church to victory
over the Beast in the last days. So, we could almost
say that the Church has it backwards; single people should be
in charge of the Church, and let the married people take instruction from
them. That sounds like the celibacy of Catholic priests. It was a good idea, but to
mandate the overseer in the Catholic Church remain celibate is no better
than mandating marriage for the overseer in the Protestant Church.
Had the priests used their extra time and energy to devote themselves to the
word of God and prayer instead of sexually molesting children, they could have become the
greatest ministers in the Church. See also: Commending the single person;
1Cor 7,7-9; 199b
1Cor 7,3-5
(4i)
Responsibility >> The choices you
make >> Accountable for your sinful nature
(134d) Temple
>>
Your body is the temple of God >> Composition of
our bodies is from the earth >> We are
physically subject to this natural realm –
Paul said that husbands should love their wives as their own bodies,
clearly speaking on physical terms. We
talk about soul mates, husbands and wives melding together in personality and
character, but the Bible says that the two shall become on flesh (Mat
19-5,6). It is actually their bodies that meld together, indicating that sex is
an important part of marriage.
Referring to the consummation of the marriage that happened on their wedding
night, some wives think the only reason they should physically be joined to
their husbands is for procreation purposes, but the Bible says we
cannot develop a bona fide marriage relationship that way. A platonic marriage
is no marriage at all; it’s a friendship perhaps for roommates, but anybody
who has this arrangement in mind for her/his significant other should not get
married. Some women think sex is disgusting, and (without advocating
prostitution) some men think having sex with prostitutes is better than their
marriage in that the prostitute may not like having sex with him any better than
his wife, but at least the prostitute puts-out or the business venture closes.
This is what the wife doesn’t understand who clams-up: if her marriage doesn’t end in divorce, it
is still doomed from the standpoint of the two becoming
spiritually and emotionally disconnected. The prostitute in this case acts more
like a wife than the wife, for Paul said in 1Cor 7,3-5, “The husband must
fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband… Stop
depriving one another….”
1Cor 7-3,4
(73h) Authority
>>
Respect authority in the family >> Respect the
institution of marriage –
Women have about as many affairs as men, though for different reasons; women
have affairs because their husbands quit loving them and they are looking for
romance; the woman wants the person with whom she is having sex to love her, whereas men
have affairs either because the wife no longer puts-out or because he has
sexually lost interest in her. A man’s sexual interests are just as
complicated as a woman’s. Men say that women are complicated, but women have no
way of understanding men. They say the only thing that matters to them is sex;
then they get married and lose interest in their wives; that doesn’t make
sense. When a man looses interest in his wife, it is like having sex with a
blow-up doll. A man wants to have sex with a woman whom he finds sexually
provocative; in other words, it is the novelty of it that he enjoys, which is
destined to fail. Putting it that way we say that nature has instilled in the
man a desire to spread his seed to as many women as possible, for the survival
of the species. Meanwhile, the woman has nesting instincts and wants to
settle down and have a family, but she wants to do it with a man who loves her,
cherishes her, values her, and if her husband doesn’t, then she wants another
man who does. What about the children? This is the part about the woman that
doesn’t make sense. She has nesting instincts, though she puts her
interests in romance above her own children and the home, willing to
sacrifice it all for romance. This goes against her instincts and makes her just
as illogical as the man.
1Cor 7-4
(72d) Authority
>> Transferring authority
>>
Men delegate authority in their position
(135e) Temple
>>
Your body is the temple of God >> Sins of the
body >> Abortion >>
Consequences of abortion >> The woman has no
authority over the fetus because she cannot control what she conceives –
Paul explains what he means in the next verse, “Don’t deprive one another,
unless it is by consent for a season.” We know that the process of
conception happens through sex. In the same way, the woman “doesn’t have
authority over her own body,” but the man decides when they should have sex,
and the man doesn’t have authority over his own body, but the woman decides
when they should have sex, so it is consensual. They both must agree to do
this, knowing that it could produce a child, and if it does, the woman again
relinquishes control over her body. She doesn’t have authority to abort her
fetus, because she cannot control what or when she conceives. That is, when
she is joined to her husband, something happens inside her body that she
doesn’t control. The only say-so she has is whether she has sex or not, and
that decision is not solely hers but also her husband’s, so her minimal
control is cut in half again. There are precautions she can take, but none of
them are foolproof. Once she conceives, all her abilities to change the
outcome vanish, for God has given her no authority beyond that point. She
can’t decide whether the child will be male or female, and she can’t
decide if it will be a healthy baby or deformed. A woman who aborts her child
has a barbaric manner of controlling the conception process; she aborts her
child against God’s authority, who has established this process to continue
the life cycle of the human species.
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(22f) Sin
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Lust (craving pleasure) >> Fleshly desire
-- These verses go with verse 1. People
in our own generation would like to think they have discounted the fact that
sex outside of marriage is sin. A
common occurrence is that people shack-up with a partner for years, and then one
day decide to get married and the marriage last only a couple months and
they split up. The relationship doesn't last under the bonds of marriage,
because they removed the attribute of rebellion, and they immediately loose interest in
each other.
1Cor 7,5-7
(76l) Thy kingdom come
>>
Desires of your heart >> Desires of your fleshly
appetite -- These verses go with verse 1. Paul had been straightening out
the Church for
the past few chapters, addressing immorality among other things; he had to
instruct married people to have sex. What? Sanctioned sex is not
seductive enough for some people, because it is not rooted in rebellion. The
kind of sex some of these Corinthians enjoyed was unlawful and immoral. So sex
was not really about sex to them; it was about sin. They wanted unlawful sex
for the very reason that it was unlawful, similar to the one fruit tree in the
Garden of Eden from which God told Adam and Eve not to eat; they wanted what they couldn’t have. Paul had to tell married people to have sex,
but to take a break occasionally for a period of fasting and prayer while they devoted
themselves to the word of God and prayer, and then come together again, lest
Satan tempt them to commit adultery from of their lack of self-control. We would think that if they were meeting each other’s sexual needs, they would
not be as tempted to be unfaithful, but that is not how it works. The sinful nature is tempted
by the rebellion of adultery and fornication more than by the sex itself.
1Cor 7-5
(7k)
Responsibility >> Use time wisely >>
Get ready >> Make time to pray – Christian married couples should live
together with Christ by faith, not depriving each other of sex, but to have
that time together. They should also regularly separate by agreement for the
purpose of prayer. Instead of having sex, the two should turn that time into a
Bible study and prayer meeting. This way both their prayers and their sexual
union will be enhanced, one by the other. Come together for sex; come together
for prayer, alternating one for the other, so that sex continues to be a
special moment, instead of it growing monotonous. Psychologically, when prayer
replaces intimacy, they will naturally associate it with their sex life, so that the
lines between prayer and sex is blurred. This
is the secret to a happy marriage, for the relationship with God and man is
also with respect to marriage (Rev 19-7). It requires both husband and wife be
saved and faithful in their relationships both to God and each other to be
fulfilling. This
becomes a ministry in that the things God teaches one is meant for both, which
they in turn share with others to help them grow in the faith.
God’s influence on each person is in this way multiplied throughout the Church. God deals with each person differently, even dealing with women
differently than men, yet the things that God reveals to each person has
direct application to the body as a whole.
(82e) Thy kingdom come
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Three elements of prayer >> Our approach >>
Be devoted to prayer
(100k) Thy kingdom come
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Devotion >> In your ministry to God >>
Devoted to prayer
(108a) Thy kingdom come
>> Faith >> Balance between truth and error >>
Wisdom brings balance between truth and error -- This verse goes with verses
8&9
(160i) Works of the devil
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Overcoming temptation >> Prayer overcomes
temptation
(187d) Die to self (Process of substitution)
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Separation from the old man >> Die to the flesh >>
Dying to receive the glory of God >> Die to self
through prayer
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(120l) Thy kingdom come
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Manifestations of faith >> Contentment >>
Content with your way of life >> Content
with remaining single -- These verses go with verses18-35. Paul
said, “I wish that all men were even as I myself am.” His wish was that
the saints would remain unmarried in order to secure undistracted devotion to
the Lord. The single person is free to commit every available hour to serving
the Lord, whereas the married person is obligated to his wife and children,
who demand large segments of their time that must be taken from the potential
service they could have rendered to the Lord. Paul would rather that
Christianity consisted largely of single people, but when we go to church, we
see the opposite; most people in church are married with only a handful of
single people lightly sprinkled in the assembly. So the Church is virtually
the opposite of Paul’s wish on this point. Paul said it is not bad to be
married. The fact that most people in Church are married can be a positive
thing, but Paul was saying that it would actually be better if they remained
single, so they could spend more time in the word of God and prayer and in
service to others instead of allocating their time and energy to their
personal interests. There is really nothing wrong with being married either as
a pastor or as a member of the Church, but the fact that the Church is
virtually the opposite of Paul’s wishes is a telltale sign that things are
amiss.
1Cor 7,7-9
(199b) Denying Christ
>>
Man exercises his will against God >>
Frustrating the grace of God >> Frustrating
Jesus >> Frustrating the Father -- These
verses go with verse 28. God
would rather His people remained single, since there will be no marriage in
heaven, and we are called to reflect the Kingdom of Heaven in this world,
according to Mat 6-10, "Your kingdom come. Your will be done, On earth as it is in heaven."
However,
we have needs in this life, and for this reason the physical aspect of
marriage is the only reason two Christian people should get married. As
Christians if we can live without sex we should remain single, according to
1Cor 7-1,35, “It is good for a man not to touch a woman,” because it
secures undistracted devotion to the Lord, whereas a married person’s time
is divided between his worldly interests and his godly interests. See also: Commending
the single person;
1Cor 7,26-35; 69a
1Cor 7-7,8
(11n) Servant
>>
Paul’s example of devotion
(137h) Temple
>>
Building the temple (with hands) >> Maturity >>
Maturing in Jesus is hard work >> Maturity
comes through discipline -- These verses go with verses
26-35
(247d) Priorities
>>
God’s priorities >> God’s interests >>
Concern >> Caring about the body of Christ -- These verses go with verses
24-40. Married
people have monopolized the Church to such a degree that it generally makes
single people feel queer among the sea of wedlock in the house of God. There are obviously some single members who feel they have a
place in the body of Christ who are useful to others, but that is the
exception to the rule. The norm is that church society accentuates the
feeling of incompatibility in single people. Most large churches have a
singles group, who don’t mix with married people, for the married are
considered the real society, while singles are seen as just another problem
in the church. When it comes to ministry, selecting a single person is
foreign to the thinking of those in charge. Instead, they make the marriage
attribute a priority in candidates, thus eliminating any opportunity for
single people to have a viable ministry in the body of Christ, which is a
travesty.
1Cor 7-8,9
(108a) Thy kingdom come
>> Faith >> Balance between truth and error >>
Wisdom brings balance between truth and error -- These verses go with verses
15-28
1Cor 7-8
(2e)
Responsibility >> Keep your commitments >>
it is better not to vow at all
(3g) Responsibility
>> To the Family >>
Remaining single is better than divorce -- This verse goes with verses 24-40.
Try
to imagine a church led by single people; when a married couple with their
children joined the Church, they are made to feel comfortable; now they know
how single people feel. Imagine when leadership is
looking for a lay minister they prioritize the single person, the married
community would have a fit about that. Imagine the difference this would make in the Church compared to Church-management
today. People would think it would turn into an orgy, taking on the
attributes of a single’s bar, picking up partners and going home with each
other. That probably does happen in some single’s groups,
especially when there is unbelief, disobedience and unfaithfulness among married people.
Nonetheless, single people can devote more time and energy into the ministry
and have greater effectiveness to reach their communities
with the gospel, which was Paul's point.
1Cor 7-9
(135b) Temple
>>
Your body is the temple of God >> Sins of the
body >> Immorality >>
Fornication -- This verse goes with verses 1&2
(190c) Die to self (Process of substitution)
>>
Separation from the old man >> Masochism
(Self-made martyr)
>> Passing through the fire – Single people are in a position where they
must allow God to replace the fulfillment of their sexual needs with the
fulfillment of their spiritual needs; hence,
they are very capable of ministry. As you know, physical desires and spiritual
desires do not overlap, so the single person’s needs are not met; they are
merely distracted by an interest to please God. It takes enormous
faith to remain single, by no means for the faint of heart. It seems
that single people would be far more tempted to fornicate, than married people
to commit adultery, since their sexual needs are not met, yet this is not
reflected in the high divorce rate these days with two of three marriages scrapped,
mostly driven by infidelity.
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(3f) Responsibility
>> To the Family >>
Divorce because of your hardness of heart –
Paul
switches gears from his own opinion to the Lord's, reiterating what Moses said
in Deuteronomy 24-1, giving permission to divorce our spouses, but Jesus added
that if we do, we cannot remarry (Mat 19,3-12). He gives no valid reason for
divorce except unfaithfulness, and even then we are
advised to remain together if repentance is present. The gist of this seemingly difficult
passage is that we should not divorce our mate, but if our mate divorces us,
we have no
control over that and are therefore free to remarry, only in the Lord; we are "not under bondage in such cases."
Paul is saying that the other person can divorce us, but we, the
believing spouse, cannot initiate the divorce and hope to remarry. We will define the “other
person” as the unbelieving spouse (who is disobedient to God’s
instruction). We can’t force the person to stay, so if he/she is determined to
leave, allow the divorce, for God has called us to peace. There is
one other legitimate cause for divorce, though the Scripture does not address
it; that is when the person is physically or emotionally abusive to the
point of jeopardizing our physical or mental health. Remember what Jesus said
about the Sabbath, “The Sabbath was made for man and not man for the
Sabbath” (Mk 2-27). We could say the same about marriage, since both
are under the same law and the circumstances are identical. Paul’s main
objective for drawing up papers for divorce is determining whether a
person can legitimately remarry. He concludes that if we initiate the divorce
under the condition that our spouse has been unfaithful and is unrepentant,
then we can remarry, but if the spouse is abusive and we divorce him/her, we
cannot remarry. This makes sense, since if we picked an abusive spouse the
first time, in indicates we are attracted to such personalities, and for that
reason alone it would be better to remain single.
1Cor 7-10,11
(10b) Responsibility
>> Bringing order to the Church >> Issues between men and women
(90h) Thy kingdom come
>>
Keeping the law >> Righteousness of the law >>
We must keep the law because it is righteous -- These verses go with
verse 19
1Cor 7-10
(2b)
Responsibility >> Avoid offending God
>>
Keeping your commitments >> Fulfill your vows in
marriage to your spouse
1Cor 7-12
(89h) Thy kingdom come
>>
Fear of God is the beginning of wisdom >> Wisdom
of the Spirit -- This verse goes with verse 25
1Cor 7-14
(133e) Temple
>>
Your body is the temple of God >> Holiness >>
The body of Christ is holy >> The temple of God
is holy -- This verse goes with verse 34
(191k) Die to self (Process of substitution)
>>
Result of putting off the old man >> Set apart by faith in the truth
– We all face the judgment of God on our
own; we cannot bring in our spouses at the judgment to mediate for us. When we die
we face God alone, so this mediation does not carry to the next life.
It only sanctifies the person while they are alive.
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1Cor 7,15-28
(108a) Thy kingdom come
>> Faith >> Balance between truth and error >>
Wisdom brings balance between truth and error -- These verses go with
verses 35-40.
Paul's instruction pertains to cases where adultery is not involved. He
explains that if either the man or the woman is determined to leave the
marriage, the believing spouse should let him/her leave;
“The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases.” Paul’s
point is that the person who seeks divorce should never remarry, and his
presumption is that the one leaving is probably not saved.
Seeking divorce is evidence (not proof) of a lack of faith and
dedication to Christ, and since the person wants to leave, divorce would probably be in the
saved person’s best interest.
Paul’s advice is that the brother or sister who is being divorced is free to remarry, yet he still
advises against it, since marriage is a complicated living arrangement,
compared to single life, also since the person has demonstrated poor
choice in marriage partners. The Christian is no longer tied to an unequal
yoke. Christians have no
business marrying unbelievers, but perhaps they were married before he/she was
saved, and now the unbeliever wants to leave. These are all common cases in divorce
situations, and Paul says that God accepts this particular case as though it
were based on unfaithfulness, but the Christian should not seek divorce. A person can say, ‘I believe in
Jesus but I still want a divorce,’ but Paul says the one who seeks divorce is the unbeliever.
1Cor 7-15
(126e) Thy kingdom come
>>
Manifestations of faith >> Peace >>
Peacemakers >> Peacemakers avoid unnecessary
confrontation –
Jesus stated that the cause for divorce is adultery; then Paul added another
legitimate cause in 1Cor 7-15, 'If the unbelieving one wants to leave for any
reason, let him leave.' The spouse seeking divorce other than for the cause of
adultery can never remarry, but the other one can. God will consider his/her
subsequent
marriages adulterous affairs, because He did not recognize the divorce.
According to Paul, a person who marries somebody who is terribly abusive physically, mentally,
emotionally but sexually faithful, if the person tiers of the abuse, she can
divorce him, but she can never remarry. Why would she want to anyway, since
she chose a lousy partner, she is likely to do it again? Marriage isn't meant
for everyone. These may be hard facts, but those looking for ways around them
will only find harder facts and consequences, such as remarrying and ending
up with a husband no better than the first, or maybe worse. Meanwhile the man
or woman could have remained single and devoted him/herself to the faith; that
was Paul’s advice.
1Cor 7-16,17
(219b) Sovereignty
>>
God overrides the will of man >> The elect >>
Man is a spectator of his own salvation >> Man
is not in control of God’s calling
1Cor 7-16
(178a) Works of the devil
>>
The religion of witchcraft >> Presumption (Hinduism) >>
Presuming the will of God >> Presumption fills
in the blanks
1Cor 7,17-24
(91f) Thy kingdom come
>>
The called >> Walking along the narrow way >>
Walking in God’s calling is to fulfill His purpose -- These verses go
with verses 29-35
1Cor 7-17
(92a) Thy kingdom come
>>
The narrow way >> Trail of good works >>
The good works that He prepared for us –
We know that God loves everyone. Jn 3-16 says, “God so loved the
world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall
not perish, but have eternal life.” God loves every person, regardless of
what he has done, whose love is based on a vision of us doing His will and
committing our lives to fulfilling the purpose and calling that He has
prepared for us. If we walk along our trail of good works, our place will be secured in
heaven (2Pet 1,5-11). Therefore, we are never to give up on God.
1Cor 7,18-35
(120l) Thy kingdom come
>>
Manifestations of faith >> Contentment >>
Content with your way of life >> Content
with remaining single -- These verses go with verse 40. If
we remain in our current state, it is a guarantee that we will be pleasing to
God, but he says if we do get married, we
have not sinned. Therefore, Paul is not commanding us but advising us to
remain in that condition in which we were called. Marriage
is a big decision; we
should involve God in it, because the Holy Spirit might say no. He may forbid us to
marry a certain person, or He may forbid us to marry at all; however, the
Bible does not forbid us to marry.
1Cor 7-18,19
(190i) Die to self (Process of substitution)
>>
Separation from the old man >> Circumcision >>
Circumcision is a sign of obedience >> Obeying the Holy Spirit makes circumcision obsolete – Jews are the circumcision and gentiles are
the uncircumcision. As a gentile, though, we can be circumcised,
and the only benefit we will receive from it is better hygiene, so circumcision is a good thing,
unless we use it to seek approval from God. Anyone who feels this way would be better
to remain uncircumcised, for their evil
conscience being uncircumcised is no worse than their good conscience believing they have
favor with God being circumcised. It has never approved anyone to God, since it is merely a
sign, like a stop sign. The
stop sign is there to tell the driver to stop, so it’s not the sign that
stops the car, but the driver. Circumcision started with Abraham when God
commanded him to be circumcised after He demonstrated his faith toward God, so
his circumcision did not help him believe in God, but merely
acted as a stamp of approval regarding his faith that he had before being
circumcised. The Jews, though, turned circumcision into a means
of divine approval and got the cart before the horse, so they could
point at something as proof of their faith, and over the centuries
circumcision morphed into the substance of their faith instead of a mere
symbol of it. The same could be said about baptism, which is the new covenant
sign of faith.
1Cor 7-19
(90h) Thy kingdom come
>>
Keeping the law >> Righteousness of the law >>
We must keep the law because it is righteous -- This verse goes with verses 10&11
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(7j)
Responsibility >> Use time wisely
>>
Get ready >> Take time to prepare –
One
of the best ways to prepare for the future is to create favorable conditions
that facilitate accomplishing our goals. Surviving the last days tribulation, there
are three issues we should consider: what kind of job we have (does it
leave any time to be with the Lord?), whether we are in debt, and
whether we are married. All three have one thing in common; they take up a
lot of time and resources.
1Cor 7,20-23
(31c) Gift of God
>>
God is our Father >> He favors you in your
circumstances
(93n) Thy kingdom come
>>
Perspective on the circumstances of this life -- These verses go with
verses 27-35
(119f) Thy kingdom come
>>
Manifestations of faith >> Freedom >>
Fences of freedom >> Being a slave to freedom
-- These verses go with verse 39. If you
are a slave (working for somebody) and it is too difficult to become free, then don’t
worry about it. God can use a slave as well as a free man. Paul thinks we would be better to remain a slave than to be free if it meant
we had to
take your eyes off Christ (to be self-employed), but if you make up in your mind to become free,
then use your freedom for the Lord. He will use you in your freedom, even
as He would use you as a slave, but whether He will use you more effectively
in your freedom is questionable. This is why he says not to worry about it,
for who knows if you change your vocation that it will actually benefit God's
purpose in your life? Paul is primarily talking about marriage, but it has other
applications, such as deciding whether to go to college, or whether you should
take a job that requires all your time and energy, leaving little for your faith.
God expects as much from us as He did from the early Church, but these issues seem archaic
and inapplicable to us. We think our lives are our own to do as we please, but
that was not Paul’s opinion, and God doesn't see it that way either.
1Cor 7-20,21
(24d) Sin
>>
Poverty (Forms of fear) >> Pursuit of happiness
creates anxiety
1Cor 7-20
(76i) Thy kingdom come
>>
Desires of your heart >> Your interests
-- This verse goes with verses 26-35
1Cor 7-21,22
(14c) Servant
>>
Slave is free/free is slave – Here we see perfect balance and
equality. Paul's advice to slaves was to become free if
possible, but if they couldn't, they were no less Christ’s freed man. In Christ we are both slave and free, meaning
our flesh is slave to the law of Christ, while our
spirit is free to obey Him. If we are free, we are
still Christ slave, and as a slave, we are free
in the Lord. In this life we will never be totally free and we are not
totally
a slave, as it says in Gal 3-28, "there is neither slave nor
free man."
1Cor 7-22,23
(53f) Paradox
>>
Opposites >> Freedom and bondage >>
Slaves are free/free are slaves
1Cor 7-23
(7i) Responsible to defend God’s cause
>>
Protecting your freedom
(213k) Sovereignty
>>
God is infinite >> Jesus owns you >>
His will becomes our will >> We are bought with
a price
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(3g) Responsibility
>> To the Family >>
Remaining single is better than divorce -- These verses go with verses
1&2. God
hates divorce (Malachi 2-16). Jesus said about divorce that immorality is the
only legitimate cause, and the one who pursues divorce outside of infidelity
and marries another is an adulterer, for God does not acknowledge divorce outside of
unfaithfulness. The victim of divorce under those terms can remarry with
God’s blessing, but Paul says she would be better to remain single. If
she has already chosen a partner who cheated on her, the likelihood of
choosing another to do the same increases. The Bible teaches to practice
love even when it hurts, is the very definition of marriage.
If there is any benefit to marriage in Christianity, it is an opportunity to
practice our faith toward each other in love.
(247d) Priorities
>>
God’s priorities >> God’s interests >>
Concern >> Caring about the body of Christ -- These verses go with verses
7&8
1Cor 7-25
(89h) Thy kingdom come
>>
Fear of God is the beginning of wisdom >> Wisdom
of the Spirit -- This verse goes with verse 40
(102g) Thy kingdom come
>>
Faithfulness (Loyalty) >> Trustworthy >>
Faithfulness -- This verse goes with verse 40
1Cor 7,26-35
(69a) Authority >>
Discernment >> Judging truth and error >>
Correcting false reasoning
–
Paul's motive for writing the book of 1st Corinthians is found in the
first verse of this chapter, "Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman," and he makes his main point in verse 35, “to promote what is
seemly, and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.” This reveals what
kind of life God wants us to lead as Christians. Single people have
freed themselves to serve the Lord and availed themselves to the Church, and the Church
doesn’t want them, because they are not married. It is a
contradiction of epic proportions! The Church doesn't have to be a single’s club, but
neither should it be a marriage club. We should wake up to just how far the Church has drifted into
error; the majority of what most Christians
think about the Bible is wrong. Over the centuries we have come to
misinterpret just about everything, so that the Church hardly resembles what God
had intended. We have churches on every other street corner in America, and they
are not persecuted, so we can worship God without fear, still we can’t
seem to accomplish anything, and the world is more messed up than ever.
Christians of many countries must worship God underground, and it is a real
hindrance in spreading the gospel, because it must be secretive. If
they tell the wrong person about Jesus, they are liable to be arrested, tortured and
possibly killed; maybe the whole church would be hauled to a concentration
camp, but we are free to openly worship God and we can’t accomplish a thing, because
of our distorted doctrines. See also: Commending
the single person;
99d
(76i) Thy kingdom come
>>
Desires of your heart >> Your interests
-- These verses go with verse 20. Paul
is giving general principles of walking with God. He is just trying to spare
us from trouble, for there will be trouble as Christians in this life. The reason marriage is not a good fit for Christianity is that it
gets in the way of our devotion to Christ. God wants us devoted to Him, not to
a wife or a husband, which means He wants us to spend hours every day in the
word of God and prayer and in ministry, the same amount of time that married
people spend on their families. That accounts for many hours a day. How many
Christians are that devoted to their faith in Jesus?
(99d) Thy kingdom come
>> Endurance (Thorn in
the flesh) >> Enduring the will of God >>
Endure abiding in Him –
Paul says if you were called while unmarried,
don’t seek marriage, and if you were called while married, don't seek
divorce. “Let each person remain in the condition in which he was called.”
Those who married prior to salvation should
remain married, and those who were saved while single should not seek a spouse. This
is only Paul’s opinion. People have a right to get married if they want, but
Paul is trying to spare them a lot of grief, because marriage compounds the
problems of this life. There are spiritual advantages to remaining
single. Getting married and raising a family is like building a house in a
hurricane. There are many strong forces against us in this life, and it would
be easier if we sought contentment, but living a
simple and uncomplicated life is not for everyone. Paul would prefer
that Christians remained committed to their faith rather than invested in this
temporal life. However, there is a caveat to Paul's opinion: He gave it during
a time of the Church's revival, so his opinion matters more during revival,
but in times of apostasy this advice doesn't matter as much, since there is
very little opportunity for ministry in the Church under those circumstances.
(137h) Temple
>>
Building the temple (with hands) >> Maturing in Jesus is hard work >> Maturity comes
through discipline -- These verses go with verse 1
(247f) Priorities
>>
God’s priorities >> God’s interests >>
Concern >> Caring about the will of God
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(93n) Thy kingdom come
>>
Perspective on the circumstances of this life -- These verses go with
verses 20-23. Paul is urging
the Church not to invest anymore
time or energy into this life than what is absolutely necessary. If someone
makes us sad, if someone makes us happy, if we are excited about our latest
store purchase, we are not to let these things take precedence.
Those who are married should still make room for God in their lives, and those who
have possessions are to live as though they had nothing, “For the form of this
world is passing away.” Paul wants us investing our time and energy in the Kingdom of God. You could say that Paul was a zealot, but
he was confirming God’s opinion. If the world doesn’t pass
away in our lifetime, then we will pass away.
Either way this life will end, and when it does, all that will survive will be
what we invested in the Kingdom of Heaven (1Cor 3,12-15).
1Cor 7-28
(42e) Judgment
>>
Satan destroyed >> Be like Jesus >>
Innocent before God
(165j) Works of the devil
>>
Manifestations of the devil >> Hardship >>
Troubles of this life –
For Christians, being single is better than getting married.
Let the world marry, and let the Christians remain single, but Paul added that
if we marry, we have not sinned. He could not make it a law, because law
doesn’t work with the new covenant (Catholic priests take note); instead, the new covenant is based on a
Spirit-controlled willingness to obey God. Paul earnestly desired the Church
to take his advice to heart and consider remaining single, for the single
person has very few needs, providing opportunity to dedicate his free time to
promoting the Kingdom of God. This is how Paul saw the Church in his day; he
preferred that the saints remained single, but other references, such as in
Timothy, said that some people are just not made for single life. They
fornicate, getting themselves into all kinds of trouble; therefore, they
should get married (1Tim 5-14), but if we can manage our affections, we should
remain single in order to secure
undistracted devotion to the Lord (v35). We already have enough trouble in
this life, and getting married will exponentially give us more trouble. When
we think of how many resources a family with three children needs to survive,
compared to the single person; he/she can potentially live on a part-time job,
while a married couple with children barely skimp with both partners working
full time. That is about a five-times greater income to run a family, compared
to an individual. See also: Commending
the single person; 1Cor 7,29-35;
91f
(199b) Denying Christ
>>
Man exercises his will against God >>
Frustrating the grace of God >> Frustrating
Jesus >> Frustrating the Father -- This
verse goes with verse 34
1Cor 7,29-35
(91f) Thy kingdom come
>>
The called >> Walking along the narrow way >>
Walking in God’s calling is to fulfill His purpose -- These verses go
with verses 17-24. Paul
advises people in the Church to remain single if they can, because there is a
powerful anointing ready to help them deal with their circumstances and
complement their sacrifice of forgoing a family. This anointing
can turn into a powerful ministry that can help reach the lost and establish the Church
in the faith, and for this reason people need to honor single people in the Church by providing opportunities for them to minister, who
are devoting themselves to the grace of God. Unfortunately however, the
opposite is happening. Single people in the Church are often
not allowed to have a ministry, because they are single, not realizing that
some may be answering God's call to remain single for the purpose of
ministry. See also: Commending the single person;
128j
(128j) Thy kingdom come
>>
Manifestations of faith >> Bearing fruit >>
Living a fruitful life >> Living a continuous
life of fruitfulness –
Just about everybody has a prayer life, but most do not have a life of prayer. We
say we are too busy raising a family to sustain a life of prayer. There is
nothing wrong with having a family, except that Paul forewarned us that we get too busy to have time for
God. Paradoxically, the only people who are allowed to minister in the Church
are married couples; single people are often shunned from ministry. They
are welcome to the service and to tithe of course, but these are
the limits of their ministry in most cases, because they are not trusted. Many
single people in the Church are the only ones obeying Christ, who have
actually devoted themselves to the faith and have
remained single for the cause of Christ, and we should honor them for their
commitment, studying their lives, making sure they are truly in love
with God and exalting them as ministers in the Church instead of shunning them. Single
people are often lonely and need spiritual fellowship more than
married people, because many of them go home to a lonely house and they need a
way to connect with people. The best way to minister to single people
is to let them minister to us. They need to be trusted and they have many
answers that the Church needs. See also: Commending the single person;
1Cor 7,32-38; 55m
(189c) Die to self (Process of substitution)
>>
Separation from the old man >> Holy sacrifice >>
Acceptable sacrifice -- These verses go with verse 1
1Cor 7,29-31
(63d) Paradox >>
Anomalies >> Righteous deception >> Righteous self-deception –
We all have needs, but if we took Paul’s advice and bought the things we
needed as though not possessing them, as though not allowing our left hand
know what our right hand was doing, we wouldn't become materialistic. People who consider themselves important because of their possessions don’t believe
in the Bible.
(108g) Thy kingdom come
>> Faith >>
Balance >> Do all things in moderation
(170f) Works of the devil
>>
Manifestations of the devil >> Outward
appearance >> Temporary >>
Whatever is temporary will perish –
When Paul said that the time had been shortened, he was referring to the fact
that the first century had just entered the last days. Before Jesus came
believers were not under this time constraint; a person could have a wife,
could find a career, could earn a good living and make full use of the world.
God had no problem with that, but now the time has been
shortened so that even Paul had reason to believe that Jesus would return
before his demise, because there was nothing in Scripture that suggested
otherwise. 2000 years later, many events have transpired making his return
that much sooner. The time has been shortened in that if Jesus could
have returned in Paul’s day, how much likelier is He to return in our day,
and how much truer is this passage than when it was first written? In this case the word of God has become truer
with time, like a
good wine or like antiques that gain value the older they get. Verse 29 has
indeed been seasoned by time.
(192b) Die to self (Process of substitution)
>>
Result of putting off the old man >> Gain by
losing >> Life for life >>
Losing your life to gain God’s purpose
(200m) Denying Christ
>>
Whoever is not with Jesus is against him >> He
is against Christ who does not receive Him >>
Whoever receives the world is against Christ –
Paul is talking about taking off the edge; don’t weep so hard, and don’t
rejoice so much; don’t be too sad and don’t be too happy; don’t let the
world get you down and don’t celebrate with it. He is talking about
maintaining an even keel, not without emotions, but minus the drama. If we
allow our emotions to dominate us, they will take over our faith, making us
too busy crying or too busy partying to serve Christ. A person who has a
tendency for depression (apart from clinical depression) is taking this life
too seriously. Perhaps he thinks this life is not giving him what he wants,
but Paul is telling us not to ask anything from this life. If we don’t ask
for anything, we can’t get depressed when it doesn’t happen.
1Cor 7-29
(214h) Sovereignty
>>
God controls time >> God’s timing >>
God’s time is soon >> Relatively soon
1Cor 7-31
(165e) Works of the devil
>>
Manifestations of the devil >> Do not partake of
the world >> Do not desire the treasures of the
world –
There is a popular saying in Christendom, “Everything is going to burn”
(2Pet 3,10-12). Nevertheless, there will be some things that will remain from
this life, our memories and relationships, but materialistically, nothing. All our labor will come to
nothing. Long before God destroys this universe, all their work will be buried
in a dump somewhere atop other people’s labors and dead visions of
this life. The only things that will survive are the fruits of the Spirit and
our relationships with others and our faith in God. God told us to emphasize
these things because they are eternal.
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(55m) Paradox
>>
Lose by gaining >> Lose God’s will to gain your own will –
Married people are more concerned about their own families than they are about
the family of God, and Paul said the only way to fix that was to not get married. He didn’t condemn marriage or say it was wrong; he just
said that marriage is an inferior life-choice compared to remaining single in terms of serving Christ.
Married people have two families: their personal family and the family of
their local church, and so of course their interests will be
divided. Paul wanted people to remain single so they could devote themselves to
the grace of God, but things have changed so much since the past two millennia that
devoting oneself to the faith has little purpose anymore, since opportunities
for
ministry no longer exist for the single person, unless he wants to sacrifice
a wife and children to fold chairs and clean bathrooms. Ministry that is worthy of sacrificing
the future simply doesn’t exist in the Church today. This is one of
the tell tail signs of apostasy. The Church back then was a community that took their meals together as a family, the
singles often ministered to married people and their children, but now things
are backwards; married people are controlling the Church and setting up
token activities for single people, but when those singles grow past a certain
age, concerns for them time-out. Older singles have no place in the
contemporary Church, when in fact they should be the greatest ministers of
all, if they have in fact remained single for the cause of Christ. See also: Commending the single person;
1Cor 7-35; 127n
(195b) Denying Christ
>>
Man exercises his will against God >> Idolatry >>
Serving two masters >> You can only serve one at
a time –
Single people are
strong and resilient as a result of their devotion to Christ. They have the greatest
opportunity for ministry in that they have more time and energy to devote to
the things of God, but married people are obligated to spend their time and resources
on their personal families. Nowadays, after
a single woman has lived beyond her youth and wants to marry, she would simply
elope if her father forbade her to marry. In Paul’s day, though, elopement was
almost as egregious as divorce, and so Paul was saying that it really depends on
the daughter. If it creates excessive friction between the father and the
daughter, it would be better to just let her marry, and if she has her mind set
on marriage, she probably wouldn’t be of much service to the saints anyway.
She would just become angry and bitter that she was forced into a life she never
wanted, and hate her father for it.
(197g)
Denying Christ >> Man exercises his will against God >> Man withers
when he is in control >> Distracted from a fruitful life
(233e) Kingdom of God
>>
Pursuing the kingdom >> Seeking the kingdom >>
Seek The Kingdom With Your Essence >> Seek the Kingdom of God with your whole life
–
The Church has changed since the first century. If the father had strong
convictions and wanted his daughter to devote herself to Christ as
a single person for the purpose of serving the saints and becoming a blessing
to God's people and allowing her faith in Christ to be the main focus of her
life and not to have a family of her own, she would not be throwing away her
life, for there were
many opportunities for ministry in the Church. The father had authority over his
virgin daughter to decide for her if she should marry, and if he stood firm on his own convictions,
being
no mandate that he must do this, but if his daughter could accept it, Paul said this decision would be beneficial to all, in contrast to
being married. The temporal benefits of marriage are confined to her immediate
family, while the benefits of remaining single and dedicating her life to the
saints were unlimited, and in the
resurrection of the righteous she would be eternally rewarded for her service
to the saints.
(241g) Kingdom of God
>>
Opposition toward the Kingdom of God >>
Hindering the kingdom >> Obstacles in the way of
the kingdom >> Distractions
1Cor 7,32-35
(103h) Thy kingdom come
>>
Purifying process >> Cleanse yourself --
These verses go with verse 1
(193l) Die to self (Process of substitution)
>>
Turn from sin to God >>
Run to God in your freedom to choose righteousness
(236f) Kingdom of God
>>
Pursuing the kingdom >> Invest in the kingdom >>
Invest your strength into the kingdom >> Invest
your ambitions
1Cor 7-34
(133e) Temple
>>
Your body is the temple of God >> Holiness >>
The body of Christ is holy >> The temple of God
is holy -- This verse goes with verse 14
(134f) Temple
>>
Your body is the temple of God >> Composition of
our bodies is from the earth >> Worship unlocks
the spirit realm -- This verse goes with verse
1
(199b) Denying Christ
>>
Man exercises his will against God >>
Frustrating the grace of God >> Frustrating
Jesus >> Frustrating the Father -- This
verse goes with verses 1&2
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(108a) Thy kingdom come
>> Faith >> Balance between truth and error >>
Wisdom brings balance between truth and error -- These verses go with verses
1&2
1Cor 7-35
(55da) Paradox
>>
Opposites >> Darkness exposes itself by its own reaction –
This chapter probably does more to expose false doctrine in the Church than
any other chapter in the Bible, in that for Paul to advise us to remain single flies
in the face of American Christianity. The
saying, “We are in the world but not of the world” (Jn
17-14,15), epitomizes what Paul is saying here. If we strive to make full use of the
world, then how are we not of it? A married couple living in a new
house with two cars, having two or more children and a dog, dwelling
in the suburbs, are said to have it all. This is the American dream,
and it also has become the Christian dream. We have been taught over the years
that it is our Christian right to have all that the world offers, but this theology
originated from the pits of hell.
(127n) Thy kingdom come
>>
Manifestations of faith >> Goodness >>
Devote your life to doing good –
Life is
often hard, and so to make it harder would seem unnecessary, yet people do it all the
time by getting married. There are tax breaks for married people and other
advantages, such as sex, children, grandchildren, companionship and family
life, yet despite all these perks Paul said, “in view of the present
distress” marriage is more a detriment than a benefit to Christianity.
Nevertheless, if we are single and over the age of 25, our character will come
into question in the Church as to why we are still single. This attitude is so prolific that
we could just about use it as a measuring stick to determine just how far the Church has
drifted from biblical truth. Paul is saying the exact opposite here, saying that Christians
should reconsider getting married. Had Paul’s wishes come true, there
would be many single people in the Church, and they would all have vibrant
ministries, but we don't see this anywhere. There are many single people in the
world but not many in the Church, because they don’t feel
welcome there, proving that Church is indeed a marriage club. Married
people control of the Church to such an extent that single
people are not even allowed to minister, and they use the passage in
Timothy to justify their attitude, “An overseer... must be... the husband of one wife” (1Tim 3-2). They say Paul was restricting
single people from ministering in the Church, commanding all ministers to be
married, but Paul was actually alluding to polygamy; otherwise, how could Paul command ministers to be married when he advocated
Christians to remain single? See also: Commending the single person; 1Cor 7,1-40;
100j
1Cor 7-36,37
(122f) Thy kingdom come
>>
Manifestations of faith >> Confidence in
yourself as you die to sin >> Confident in what
you are doing –
Paul was saying that back then if the father
refuses to let his daughter marry, in view of their present distress, both
father and daughter would have diverted nonessential trouble.
This is especially true under times of war and persecution. Someone might say
that Paul's advice was specific to their particular circumstances, that it is
not true for us, but the word of God remains true regardless of the
circumstances. That is, it will always be true that single life is simpler
than married life, yet how much simpler is in fact based on circumstances. The biblical
reason for remaining single is to secure undistracted devotion to
the Lord. The greatest advantage for the father allowing his virgin daughter
to marry is grandchildren. This also delineates between our
culture and the first century. In times of hardship and persecution,
which literally defined the early Church, children were a liability.
Without children a single man or a woman could pick up and flee at a moments notice,
but it is not so easy with children or while pregnant. Paul advised to
sacrifice the personal family in order to devote more resources to God's family. Not only is it a sacrifice to the father, it is
a bigger
sacrifice to the daughter, who must deny motherhood. It would take enormous faith
on her part to do this, and for that reason she is a very rare and valuable
asset to the Church.
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(74e) Thy kingdom come
>>
Heart is man’s central value system >> Where
man interprets worth
1Cor 7-39
(119f) Thy kingdom come
>>
Manifestations of faith >> Freedom >>
Fences of freedom >> Being a slave to freedom
-- This verse goes with verses 20-23. According
to Rom 7,1-6, Married people are obligated to remain faithful to his or her
spouse, but the person whose spouse dies is released from the
marriage and is free to remarry, but Paul suggested to remain single. That is,
instead of enjoying our freedom Paul
commanded us to invest it by dying to self. The one who dies is just as free from the Law as the
one who lives, and since we are free to remarry, Paul suggested that we marry Christ.
1Cor 7-40
(89h) Thy kingdom come
>>
Fear of God is the beginning of wisdom >> Wisdom
of the Spirit -- This verse goes with verse 12
(102g) Thy kingdom come
>>
Faithfulness (Loyalty) >> Trustworthy >>
Faithfulness -- This verse goes with verse 25
(120l) Thy kingdom come
>> Manifestations of
faith >> Contentment >>
Content with your way of life >> Content
with remaining single -- This verse goes with verse 1. This
was Paul’s attitude about marriage: it is well, but remaining single is
better. Remaining single is better in view of the present distress, meaning more adverse circumstances makes Paul’s advice
more relevant, and better circumstances make his advice less relevant.
There is nothing wrong with getting married, but he was trying to spare us
trouble, because he knows we will endure hardship in this life (Vs26-28). We
don't need to get married and have a family to help perpetuate the human
species, for there is more than enough people already doing that. We
don’t need to get married and have a family to help perpetuate the Church,
because God has commanded us to win souls for Christ, not grow them. Most Catholics were born
Catholics, because it is almost impossible to win
converts to Catholicism, since it is a religion only for old women, but true
Christianity according to Scripture is appealing, for it calls us to live a clean and simple life with a simple faith,
comforted in the fact that we have peace with God and the hope of eternal
life.
(142e) Witness
>> Validity of Jesus
Christ >> Witnesses of Jesus >>
Having a good reputation >> A reputation of
being trustworthy
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